My mom brought up the fact that he might be coming to live with them this weekend... I must admit my first instinct was to hiss:
"You wouldn't let Tish move in with us when her home life was hell."
But then again Alex is a guy (my mom is real big on the 'no girls around Gabriel's age staying with us' thing, as apparently it is not proper), and he goes to the same school and has the same extracurricular activities as Gabriel does - thusly requiring little to no extra transportation effort. His dad is also cooperative, which helps. I'd wager Tish's grandmother would not have been too pleasant to deal with had we gone to her saying "look, bitch, give us your granddaughter, as you are not fit to live with". They also now have an extra room and the ability to handle an addition to the clan (Tish needed to be moved around the time my Abuelita was nearing her last month or so - so everyone was incredibly stressed and the house was full)
So after reasoning it out I was no longer angry at my parents for accepting Alex when they did (could) not accept Tish.
But dear GOD, our house will be even MORE insane than usual. Meep.